My dear readers, in the beginning I was uncertain when publishing the article about the first Torah Portion of the year. There are so many sites with Parashat Shavua commentaries, I thought, do my readers really need another one? However, the interest in these articles has been very encouraging, so we’ll keep discussing Parashat Shavua, at least through the book of Genesis. This week we read Hayyei-Sarah (Sarah’s life), Genesis 23:1-25:18, and this Torah portion, like almost every section of the Word, has a message for everyone: for young people looking for their “other half,” for parents raising their children, and for people well advanced in age. Let’s delve into the text.
LIFE IN DEATH
First of all, it seems that the title “Hayyei-Sarah” (“Sarah’s life”) is not the most suitable title for a Portion opening with the death of Sarah—right away, in the second verse, Sarah dies: “And Sarah died in Kiriatharba–the same is Hebron–in the land of Canaan”. But here is the first lesson of this portion: even after Sarah’s death, lives and narratives were still influenced by her life – Hayyei Sarah. God desires His people to live in such a way that their lives have an impact on those around them—so even when they pass from this world, people and stories will continue to bear their names.
Why did Sarah die? In Jewish tradition Sarah’s death in Genesis 23 is juxtaposed to the events of Genesis 22: when Sarah heard that “her son was prepared for slaughter and was almost slaughtered, her soul flew out of her and she died” (Sarah died at the age of 127, it means, by the way, that according to this tradition, Isaac was 37 years old when he was led to Mount Moriah, and not a child as he is often portrayed in the Christianity).
Next, we learn something very significant about Abraham. Pay close attention to what Abraham is saying to the children of Heth while trying to buy a burying place for Sarah: I am a stranger and a sojourner. How humble are these words: he knows very well that he is just a stranger among people around him. But what do children of Heth answer him? “Hear us, my lord: thou art a mighty prince among us.” This is the best testimony a person might aspire to: if you know that you are just a stranger and a sojourner, and yet people around you see you as “mighty prince”, not as a helpless stranger, it means that God must be shining through you! It means that His strength is seen in your weakness, that His power empowers you, that it’s not you whom the people see – but God in you.
THE INTRIGUING DETAIL
In Genesis 24, Rebecca, an amazing young woman, makes a life-changing decision: to leave her home and to go to Canaan to marry Isaac. At the end of this long and eventful chapter Rebekah sees Isaac for the first time. In English, we read: she dismounted from her camel. However, these words don’t bring out the original Hebrew meaning correctly: ותפל מעל הגמל – and she fell down, fell off the camel. She literally falls off her camel! Why did Rebekah fall?
We read that Isaac was coming from the way of Beer Lahai Roi, the Well of The Living One Who Sees Me. This profound name tells us that, even after the Mount Moriah event, when Isaac disappears completely from the pages of Torah, he did not disappear from God’s sight: It was not his earthly father, but his Heavenly Father who restored him after the terrible shock he went through—The One Who Sees Me Lives.
I believe that, after the time he had spent with God, Isaac must have been resplendent with God’s light and shining with God’s glory. Rashi writes about Rebecca and this initial meeting: “She saw his majestic appearance, and she was astounded by him.” Isaac is coming up out of the desert, radiating God’s light and dazzling Rebekah as she laid eyes on him for the first time.
Maybe, this is an additional reason why “she took her veil and covered herself.” Of course she covered herself as a token of subjection to her future husband—a bride had to be brought veiled into the presence of her bridegroom. However, both her falling down from the camel, and covering herself make even more sense as we imagine Isaac shining and dazzling Rebekah.
The story of Isaac and Rebecca’s love is one of the most beautiful, romantic stories in Torah. However, the most wonderful thing about this story is that it required the faith of several people to become a story of true love. The lesson is very clear: the best families and marriages, before they become stories of love, have to be stories of faith.
THE FIRST “LOVE”
We then witness the story of faith becoming indeed the story of love: Isaac … took Rebekah and she became his wife, and he loved her (יֶּאֱהָבֶ֑הָ). Is there anything specific that this amazing Hebrew root, ahav, can tell us here?
It is very important to note that in a romantic sense, as referring to a relationship between a man and a woman, the verb “love” (ahav) occurs here for the first time in the entire Torah (and for the second time overall). There is no doubt that Abraham loved Sarah, yet Scripture never uses this word to describe their relationship. Isaac’s feelings for Rebecca must have been very intense if the Torah finds it necessary to use this verb.
Even more remarkable is the fact that the first time we find this root is in Genesis 22, where God says to Abraham, “Take now your son, your only son Isaac, whom you love אהבת)).” It’s very interesting to note that, on both occasions, the verb “to love” is attached to Isaac: he was the one who was loved in Genesis 22, and he is the one who loves in Genesis 24.
The eternal truth of parenting is revealed through this Hebrew root: We are to love our children, so that they will be full of love when they grow up. One has to be loved (by the earthly father and /or by the Heavenly Father), in order to be able to love. Isaac was the first person whom the Torah addresses as being loved by his father – he was also the first person whom the Torah addresses as loving his wife!
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 Gen. Rabbah 58:5
 Gen. 24:63
 Gen. 24:65